Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Hi all, I am sorry I didn't get to post anything yesterday. I talked to Lara, who has remained Alison and Kirk's faithful support person aka scullery maid in Berkeley, and when I talked with Alison she confirmed that Tuesday was a good day. Her headache continues to improve, she doggedly (sorry about that to the Cat People) walked about 30 minutes with Lara because she is determined to keep her conditioning up; and never fear, her appetite remains healthy (this is a euphemism: she is still on a pretty good dose of the decadron [steroid for brain swelling] and will cheerfully tuck in to almost any food item put in her sight lines. Keep your fingers back, I warn you!).

She and Kirk will meet with the medical oncologist today (radiation oncologist is next week) to hear about that treatment.

She is so much better than a week ago that she and Kirk are going to fly solo for a couple of days, meaning Lara leaves today; frankly, I think they are sick of us and ready to have their space back for a bit. But ha! Daughter Dani is finishing the semester-end stuff in Monterey (Cal State Monterey Bay student) and is heading up Friday to add her assistance and lovely presence; so we will have Dani's first hand reports to keep us up to date. I guess Dani had better check in with Lara regarding the extent of scullery maid responsibilities...we love our young 'uns.

Thank you all for posting your comments - it gives Alison one easy place to go to look for her "fan mail". Cards are great, too, and email to her is OK, but I don't know how much she is checking there (a bit more eye strain, I think). If anyone has something they would like us to post on this main area, feel free to email me at whit@got.net, or leave a message in the Comments. Love to you all, Deborah

7 comments:

  1. Alison and Kirk--I am thinking of you with the knowledge that you are finding comfort and strength in each other's loving company. Sending much love your way, always,
    Diane Bellas

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  2. alison, my heart goes out to you! stay strong, get better , come back to us when you are able.
    i cannot be the shortest one in the nursery!
    lots of love, encouragement, and strength are being sent to.
    love cindy

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  3. Alison
    Glad to hear that you had a good day. As far as eating goes.. I am a
    firm believer that chocolate is a basic food group for women, so eat lots
    of chocolate. Keep getting better. We are all sending good thoughts and
    miss your smile on the PM shift. Lots of love to you. Stephanie

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  4. Alison,
    You do not know me, but I have worked closely with your sister Deborah for many years. She has told me of your illness. I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are being sent to you daily. Keep your strength up and keep your faith.
    Nancy Wilburn

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  5. Alison,

    I just wanted to let you know that I am following your news on this blog and am thinking aout you constantly. I am available to bring you guys dinner, help you with cleaning or for company when you are ready. I sent you an email, but by the looks of it, this is the best place to reach you.

    Sending loads of positive energy your way,

    Andrea (from CHO)

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  6. Alison,
    I just wanted to say hello :)and let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Miss seeing your smiling face at work. Lots of love to you and your family. Stay strong!
    Take care,
    Jen Naugle

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  7. Hi Ms Alison!!!!!
    I finally figured out how to get on here and send you a message. Been thinking about you a lot sending positive thoughts and prayers your way!!! Happy Holidays and New Year. Please do not hesitate to call if you need anything! Would love your address!, email me personally when you get a chance... ectgmb@pacbell.net and 209-918-9929 Lots of love and light to you and your family! Tina Coverdale

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